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Adult Children Living at Home: A Modern Reality

Adult Children Living at Home: A Modern Reality

Adult Children Living at Home: A Modern Reality

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Friday 27 February 2015

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Friday 27 February 2015

Friday 27 February 2015

The 1980s TV series Home to Roost followed Henry Willows as his life was turned upside down by his adult son moving back home. Fast forward to today, and this scenario is no longer just a sitcom trope. For many families, adult children living at home has become an economic necessity. Young adults face numerous financial challenges that can delay their independence, making it essential for families to navigate this reality thoughtfully.

The Financial Pressures Young Adults Face

The Cost of Education

While debates over tuition fees dominate headlines, parents know that education expenses extend far beyond tuition. Housing, living expenses, and other costs can pile up quickly, leaving young adults reliant on family support during their studies.

A Shifting Job Market

Securing a first job is often more complicated than in previous generations. Many young adults start with zero-hours contracts, part-time work, or internships—sometimes unpaid—just to gain industry experience. These options rarely provide the financial stability needed for independent living or meeting mortgage affordability criteria.

Challenges in the Property Market

Saving for a deposit is a critical step to homeownership, but it’s much easier to achieve when living rent-free at home. High property prices and rental costs make saving nearly impossible for many young adults living independently.

Multi-Generational Living: Choice or Necessity?

Multi-generational homes are not a new concept; history is full of examples, from large estates like Downton Abbey to smaller family homes. However, modern multi-generational living comes with unique challenges. It should be a choice, not a necessity, and requires clear communication about how financial and household responsibilities will be shared.

The Financial Impact on Parents

Adult children living at home can strain family finances, particularly if parents are subsidising their children’s expenses. Savings may dwindle, and investment plans could be delayed, potentially jeopardising long-term financial goals. In such cases, consulting a professional financial adviser can help parents plan strategically and assist their children in moving towards independence.

Helping Young Adults Spread Their Wings

Understanding the Underlying Reasons

The first step in supporting young adults towards independence is understanding why they remain at home. Financial reasons often dominate, but non-financial factors—such as the comfort of a fully supported environment—can also play a role.

Career Advice and Training

If unstable employment is the issue, career advice can help young adults assess their skills and explore new opportunities. Obtaining certifications such as first aid, food hygiene, or an SIA licence can open doors to immediate job prospects and build confidence.

Financial Gifts and Support

In some cases, parents may consider gifting their children money, for example, to help with a deposit for a starter home. Such financial support can serve as an advance on inheritance and may have tax advantages. However, it’s vital to ensure these gifts are appropriate for the family’s financial situation and are used wisely.

Final Thoughts: Balancing Family and Financial Independence

Having adult children at home can be a rewarding experience when approached with clear boundaries and financial planning. Supporting them towards independence requires addressing both financial and non-financial factors. With the right guidance, families can find solutions that work for everyone involved.

Important Note: Consulting a qualified financial adviser can provide tailored advice to help families navigate the challenges and opportunities of multi-generational living.

The 1980s TV series Home to Roost followed Henry Willows as his life was turned upside down by his adult son moving back home. Fast forward to today, and this scenario is no longer just a sitcom trope. For many families, adult children living at home has become an economic necessity. Young adults face numerous financial challenges that can delay their independence, making it essential for families to navigate this reality thoughtfully.

The Financial Pressures Young Adults Face

The Cost of Education

While debates over tuition fees dominate headlines, parents know that education expenses extend far beyond tuition. Housing, living expenses, and other costs can pile up quickly, leaving young adults reliant on family support during their studies.

A Shifting Job Market

Securing a first job is often more complicated than in previous generations. Many young adults start with zero-hours contracts, part-time work, or internships—sometimes unpaid—just to gain industry experience. These options rarely provide the financial stability needed for independent living or meeting mortgage affordability criteria.

Challenges in the Property Market

Saving for a deposit is a critical step to homeownership, but it’s much easier to achieve when living rent-free at home. High property prices and rental costs make saving nearly impossible for many young adults living independently.

Multi-Generational Living: Choice or Necessity?

Multi-generational homes are not a new concept; history is full of examples, from large estates like Downton Abbey to smaller family homes. However, modern multi-generational living comes with unique challenges. It should be a choice, not a necessity, and requires clear communication about how financial and household responsibilities will be shared.

The Financial Impact on Parents

Adult children living at home can strain family finances, particularly if parents are subsidising their children’s expenses. Savings may dwindle, and investment plans could be delayed, potentially jeopardising long-term financial goals. In such cases, consulting a professional financial adviser can help parents plan strategically and assist their children in moving towards independence.

Helping Young Adults Spread Their Wings

Understanding the Underlying Reasons

The first step in supporting young adults towards independence is understanding why they remain at home. Financial reasons often dominate, but non-financial factors—such as the comfort of a fully supported environment—can also play a role.

Career Advice and Training

If unstable employment is the issue, career advice can help young adults assess their skills and explore new opportunities. Obtaining certifications such as first aid, food hygiene, or an SIA licence can open doors to immediate job prospects and build confidence.

Financial Gifts and Support

In some cases, parents may consider gifting their children money, for example, to help with a deposit for a starter home. Such financial support can serve as an advance on inheritance and may have tax advantages. However, it’s vital to ensure these gifts are appropriate for the family’s financial situation and are used wisely.

Final Thoughts: Balancing Family and Financial Independence

Having adult children at home can be a rewarding experience when approached with clear boundaries and financial planning. Supporting them towards independence requires addressing both financial and non-financial factors. With the right guidance, families can find solutions that work for everyone involved.

Important Note: Consulting a qualified financial adviser can provide tailored advice to help families navigate the challenges and opportunities of multi-generational living.

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**£50 cash referral fee payments are Subject to discretion and can be withdrawn at any time**

***Please note that some forms of Buy-To-Let mortgages are not regulated by the FCA

****For commercial lending, bridging finance, and second charge loans, we refer clients to trusted third-party specialists.

YOUR HOME MAY BE REPOSSESSED IF YOU DO NOT KEEP UP REPAYMENTS ON YOUR MORTGAGE.
There will be a fee for this advice. The exact amount will depend upon your circumstances but we estimate it will be £295 and will only be payable on completion of the loan.

Barrett Mortgages is a trading style of Barrett Mortgages LTD who is an Appointed Representative of Mortgage Next Network ltd which is authorised and regulated by the Financial Conduct Authority under number 300866 in respect of mortgage, insurance and consumer credit mediation activities only.

Registered address: Towngate House, 2-8 Parkstone Road, Poole, BH15 2PW Registered in England & Wales under number 10985778.

Copyright 2024 Barrett Mortgages | All Rights Reserved.

We always aim to provide a high quality service to our customers. However, if you encounter any problems and we are unable to resolve them you can take your complaint to an independent Ombudsman. Our advice is covered under the Financial Ombudsman Service (www.http://www.financial-ombudsman.org.uk/consumer/complaints.htm).

© 2024 Barrett Mortgages. All rights reserved.

*Fees Free Remortgage” refers to the lender paying for the valuation fee and basic legal fees other cost & fees may apply.

**£50 cash referral fee payments are Subject to discretion and can be withdrawn at any time**

***Please note that some forms of Buy-To-Let mortgages are not regulated by the FCA

****For commercial lending, bridging finance, and second charge loans, we refer clients to trusted third-party specialists.

YOUR HOME MAY BE REPOSSESSED IF YOU DO NOT KEEP UP REPAYMENTS ON YOUR MORTGAGE.
There will be a fee for this advice. The exact amount will depend upon your circumstances but we estimate it will be £295 and will only be payable on completion of the loan.

Barrett Mortgages is a trading style of Barrett Mortgages LTD who is an Appointed Representative of Mortgage Next Network ltd which is authorised and regulated by the Financial Conduct Authority under number 300866 in respect of mortgage, insurance and consumer credit mediation activities only.

Registered address: Towngate House, 2-8 Parkstone Road, Poole, BH15 2PW Registered in England & Wales under number 10985778.

Copyright 2024 Barrett Mortgages | All Rights Reserved.

We always aim to provide a high quality service to our customers. However, if you encounter any problems and we are unable to resolve them you can take your complaint to an independent Ombudsman. Our advice is covered under the Financial Ombudsman Service (www.http://www.financial-ombudsman.org.uk/consumer/complaints.htm).

© 2024 Barrett Mortgages. All rights reserved.

*Fees Free Remortgage” refers to the lender paying for the valuation fee and basic legal fees other cost & fees may apply.

**£50 cash referral fee payments are Subject to discretion and can be withdrawn at any time**

***Please note that some forms of Buy-To-Let mortgages are not regulated by the FCA

****For commercial lending, bridging finance, and second charge loans, we refer clients to trusted third-party specialists.

YOUR HOME MAY BE REPOSSESSED IF YOU DO NOT KEEP UP REPAYMENTS ON YOUR MORTGAGE.
There will be a fee for this advice. The exact amount will depend upon your circumstances but we estimate it will be £295 and will only be payable on completion of the loan.

Barrett Mortgages is a trading style of Barrett Mortgages LTD who is an Appointed Representative of Mortgage Next Network ltd which is authorised and regulated by the Financial Conduct Authority under number 300866 in respect of mortgage, insurance and consumer credit mediation activities only.

Registered address: Towngate House, 2-8 Parkstone Road, Poole, BH15 2PW Registered in England & Wales under number 10985778.

Copyright 2024 Barrett Mortgages | All Rights Reserved.

We always aim to provide a high quality service to our customers. However, if you encounter any problems and we are unable to resolve them you can take your complaint to an independent Ombudsman. Our advice is covered under the Financial Ombudsman Service (www.http://www.financial-ombudsman.org.uk/consumer/complaints.htm).

© 2024 Barrett Mortgages. All rights reserved.

*Fees Free Remortgage” refers to the lender paying for the valuation fee and basic legal fees other cost & fees may apply.

**£50 cash referral fee payments are Subject to discretion and can be withdrawn at any time**

***Please note that some forms of Buy-To-Let mortgages are not regulated by the FCA

****For commercial lending, bridging finance, and second charge loans, we refer clients to trusted third-party specialists.

YOUR HOME MAY BE REPOSSESSED IF YOU DO NOT KEEP UP REPAYMENTS ON YOUR MORTGAGE.
There will be a fee for this advice. The exact amount will depend upon your circumstances but we estimate it will be £295 and will only be payable on completion of the loan.

Barrett Mortgages is a trading style of Barrett Mortgages LTD who is an Appointed Representative of Mortgage Next Network ltd which is authorised and regulated by the Financial Conduct Authority under number 300866 in respect of mortgage, insurance and consumer credit mediation activities only.

Registered address: Towngate House, 2-8 Parkstone Road, Poole, BH15 2PW Registered in England & Wales under number 10985778.

Copyright 2024 Barrett Mortgages | All Rights Reserved.

We always aim to provide a high quality service to our customers. However, if you encounter any problems and we are unable to resolve them you can take your complaint to an independent Ombudsman. Our advice is covered under the Financial Ombudsman Service (www.http://www.financial-ombudsman.org.uk/consumer/complaints.htm).

© 2024 Barrett Mortgages. All rights reserved.

*Fees Free Remortgage” refers to the lender paying for the valuation fee and basic legal fees other cost & fees may apply.

**£50 cash referral fee payments are Subject to discretion and can be withdrawn at any time**

***Please note that some forms of Buy-To-Let mortgages are not regulated by the FCA

****For commercial lending, bridging finance, and second charge loans, we refer clients to trusted third-party specialists.

YOUR HOME MAY BE REPOSSESSED IF YOU DO NOT KEEP UP REPAYMENTS ON YOUR MORTGAGE.
There will be a fee for this advice. The exact amount will depend upon your circumstances but we estimate it will be £295 and will only be payable on completion of the loan.

Barrett Mortgages is a trading style of Barrett Mortgages LTD who is an Appointed Representative of Mortgage Next Network ltd which is authorised and regulated by the Financial Conduct Authority under number 300866 in respect of mortgage, insurance and consumer credit mediation activities only.

Registered address: Towngate House, 2-8 Parkstone Road, Poole, BH15 2PW Registered in England & Wales under number 10985778.

Copyright 2024 Barrett Mortgages | All Rights Reserved.

We always aim to provide a high quality service to our customers. However, if you encounter any problems and we are unable to resolve them you can take your complaint to an independent Ombudsman. Our advice is covered under the Financial Ombudsman Service (www.http://www.financial-ombudsman.org.uk/consumer/complaints.htm).